This post is written by Karlos DeMarko ( while staying in front of the computer )
Some simple thoughts about nice guys and bad boys.
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Being too nice with women is a sin.
They want thrills even if it crashes them.
This is the reason why a woman choses to be with another guy even if you try to convince her that she punishes herself.
It is time to realize that she doesn’t want a man with a good soul. She is not programmed to.
Women do not remember the eyes of nice guys.
Women remember the ones who broke their hearts.
They do not think about the tears you had for them. ( Well sometimes a woman feels pity for the sorrows that she causes without remorse )
The reality is that women crave for some attention from bad boys.
When women don’t get what they want they accuse them of being gay.
More on bad boys…
A bad boy do not call his girl for a whole week but at the end of the week he invites her to party.
A bad boy do not give a shit if his girl feels bad.
A bad boy do not appologice if he forgot about the meeting.
A bad boy flirts with other women and appears dominant in the group.
A bad boy has been to the police at least ones.
Even more on the bad boy…
- It is never boring around him. He is unpredictable and exciting.
- He is strong, aggressive and knows his shit. This makes women feel protected.
- He is very charming and emotional.
- He never has a wretched appearance and rarely feels unhappy.
Women feel very happy if they get his attention. He is perceived as a man who can has every woman he wants so when he gives some woman his attention she feels flattered.
Obviously he is not the long term relationship material but the sweety-bitter memories about him come again and again.
What about the nice guys?
They are so nice that they do not deserve to be with such creatures like women!
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That’s all for today.
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This post is written by Karlos DeMarko ( Seriously! )
Trying to pick up a woman using a particular technique without being dominant is like trying to put water in your palm and take it to another destination. What i mean by that is : trying to pick up a woman using a particular technique without being dominant is like trying to put water in your palm and take it to another destination.
So how do we become dominant?
The problem with trying to become dominant is that you become domineering. This is not what you want. So the solution is to see what makes us appearing as non-dominant males and try to get rid of this behavior. It is that simple.
Once again. DO NOT TRY TO BE DOMINANT. Instead TRY NOT TO BE NON-DOMINANT in the first place.
Feel free to use some of these as much as you appear natural and never try to pretend that you are more than you are because this way you build character that later you will find hard to maintain.
Here we start.
1. Are you scared to make a joke about somebody?
Non-dominant males are scared to have their little joke because of their psychological condition at the moment. Most of them even compliment other males so they do not fuck with them and make them feel even more insecure. Even worse - they put themselves down so they make others laugh and these way they will not kick his ass.
Here is an example how to deal with alpha males of the group ( AMOG ).
AMOG: Hey dude you must be kidding me. Why are you wearing sport shoes?
You: I am like a ninja with them. They are so quite unlike some official ones who stamp and appear like a man prostitute when you walk.
AMOG: ( AMOGED )
See? The amog is with official shoes and is trying to fuck with you because you wear sport ones. Non dominant males will start to give excuses instead of making fun of him without being rude. Trust me when you say something like that the whole group will laugh at him so hard that he will not be able to say anything rational.
2. Speaking too fast.
Non-dominant males when being around dominant ones or women feel suppressed and this emotional condition makes them feel insecure when they talk and for some reason they need to talk a lot and so fast that it appears as non natural. This combined with the bad body language makes women give them the cold shoulder and laugh hard at them.
Not speaking too fast doesn’t mean speaking to slowly!
3. Thinking too hard what to say.
Women can sense this and in most cases will turn away so they do not feel uncomfortable around you. It is known that if you feel uncomfortable, women will feel uncomfortable around you too. Women hate that.
People who feel comfortable at their own skin may talk so ridiculous staff and still being attractive and have a value.
4.Using defensive body language.
- closed posture
- putting their hands in front of them.
- putting some object in front of them.
-taking little space and feeling uncomfortable when they are in relaxed position.
5. When talking using words like: Um…. known as brain farts combined with biting their lips and putting their finger between the teeth.
6.Their voice never change. It is always monotone even if they tell two different stories.
This means lack of confidence and most people like that are perceived as boring as hell even if they look like Brad Pitt.
7. Their fingers are too alive unlike the rest of the body.
- Twitching the fingers.
- Touching the face.
- Feeling non natural when they put their hands at the hips.
8.Looking down.
Look man,
Just go out and start practicing for two weeks looking people at the eyes whey you pass by them.Do it once for ever and then come back here.
9. Smiling when not necessary.
Beta males will smile when it is not necessary. This way they show that they are harmless. This is the main strategy of nice guys when they are around women. They feel insecure around alpha dominant males and they think that just because they feel like that women don’t like it too so they try to be exactly the opposite which makes them appear as idiots.
10. Walking fast.
When beta males have to pass by people who are looking at them they feel insecure and start walking too fast so they disappear faster. Maybe if they walk naturally the moon will disappear or what?
11. Blinking a lot.
See 8.
12. Shifting their eyes in different direction when they talk with somebody who they are interested in.
This is very beta. Even if you offer somebody a value to guarantee his survival he will not take you seriously. If you want to make somebody listen to you look him at the eyes and talk to him.
13. Being uncomfortable with their eyes.
14. Looking down or away before trying to answer a question.
14,5. Do not feel comfortable when touching.
Man, women LOVE to be touched. Just practice touching them at non sexual places and you will see how they start to perceive you as the men who will fuck them. Even if you are the most ugly freak on this planet if you learn to touch women they will share each other that you are ugly but the way you touch them makes them rape you on the moment. Trust me!
See you soon.
Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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Today i was reading a TOP FASHION men magazine and i saw an article where they talk about “Difficult female questions and how to respond correctly”. Of course they have no idea that in the community this is called “shit tests” and the interesting thing was how they give advice for responding to them.
What i noticed is that they try to answer in a way that makes the woman feel a comfort and good about herself. Of course if she is very attracted to you it is ok to build comfort but in most cases when you give a woman too much validation you make the attraction a constant. The problem is that by definition attraction is an emotional feeling which can not be always the same level.It always varies so when you validate a woman too much it is at the expense of the attraction you have build.
Of course these people have no idea that the process of making a woman to fall in love with you is based on two different things - ATTRACTION + COMFORT which are very opposite. So in order to make everything ok you have to put the woman on a position where she is neither too much validated nor de-validated.
Here are some of the shit tests your girl may throws at you.
1. How much do you love me?
Right answer: Put your hands in front of you with your palms pointing each other then separate them a bit and say proudly: “this/so much!”
Wrong answers:
-No
-Maybe, i don’t know.
- Why do you ask me?
- Does it matter?
-If it makes you feel better then YES i love you.
2. Am i fat?
If a woman asks you if she is fat then trust me she perceives herself as a fat one. If you tell her that she is not then she knows that you are lying to her. If you tell her that she is then you may brake the comfort level between both of you which will make the attraction too high and will de-validates her. Honestly i didn’t see a single magazine or article where they answer correctly to this question. They always advice you to say that she is not fat but trust me she knows you are lying. So…
Right answer:
- Oh, that’s why Jeniffer Lopez doesn’t want to come to our town.
- Yes. You are HUGE. ( GAMBIT! Use it on your own risk and only if she is anything but fat! )
Wrong answer ( in spite of every one will advice you to use it! )
- No.
3.Do you think she is more beautiful than me?
Right answer: Oh, Are there other women here? ( said with a surprise!)
4. All the women are watching at you.( Meaning that you have too much value for her! )
Right answer: ( The same as above )
5. What are you thinking about?
Right answer: If i wanted you to know i would talk about it, instead of thinking…! ( said with a little smirk )
Wrong answer: ( Telling her what you have been thinking about! )
This is enough for today. Hope you got the idea. Depending on how much attraction or comfort you want to build you decide what to do at the current situation. The answers above are meant for men who are currently in a relationship or something like that. Of course you have to be congruent with your answers. You can not pretend to be the cool guy when there is nobody to go out with or you may realize how attraction really works when you see her back.
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1. She hates men.
Some women love to put men down or just to make them feel uncomfortable. These types of women do not care about other people. They think only about their own feelings. If they give their body to somebody it is going to be for the maximum price.
2.You are too poor.
Although the attraction is based on things different than the money some men have no idea how to attract women and believe that money is the key. This way they do not develop their attractive personality which makes them feel unworthy and women lose attraction for this kind of guys. Of course regular people would rationalize it like “he is not rich” that’s why HE is not good with women.
3.She is CURRENTLY in love with somebody else.
Well…i think there is no need to explain this. I will only give you the most expensive advice ever: DO NOT TRY TO CONVINCE A WOMAN LOGICALLY WHY HER MAN IS NOT GOOD FOR HER. NEVER! Attraction is based on emotional feelings so no matter how much you EXPLAIN her that he is not good for her it is simply not gonna work. Instead try to engage her emotionally WHILE YOU GO OUT AND SEDUCE OTHER WOMEN!
4. She likes to flirt and nothing more.
Some women with low self esteem ( LSE ) or the married ones will often flirt with you but when you try to escalate she will put you down and maybe will try to make you feel guilty. The reason she is doing this is because she wants to be loved. Women say they feel good when men are trying to win over them. The real reason women do that is because they are biological machines that have two main quests:
- survive
- replicate
No matter that she has a man who is protecting her and can make her kids it is a primary need to constantly try to gain social value. Even women are ready to lose what they have in order to gain more.
5. She has fucked up character.
Most women who belong to this category have men fucked up men and they believe that men are the enemies. And just because you are a man she will put you down. This is a big complex so you’d better not stay around such women.
6. Your first step was wrong.
The reason a woman tell you: “Fuck you” has nothing in common with who you are. It is just that you didn’t present your character the proper way. If you are at a disco bar and you put your hand on some woman’s shoulder and say: “Hi baby” it may work with one woman but not work at all with another one. Direct approach is 50/50. Sometimes it is good other - not.
7. You have been on the right place in the wrong time.
She is not in the mood, dude. Try later.
8. She is recovering from a long term relationship. It is called - being FREE.
Imagine you have been in a prison for the last two years and now you are out and have a million dollars? Will you stay at your village?
9.You are a wuss.
There is no bigger turn off than a guy who is tall, has two eyes, two ears, two hands and legs AND is not confident in his skin. If you feel nervous around women do not expect that she will become your mother to make you feel good AND then open her legs for you. Well you may become one of her girl-friend and listen how some idiot doesn’t respect her. If you don’t like this idea then CONFIDENCE is the key. Boldness is not recommended.
Remember: Attraction is something you are, not something you do. So the attractive traits like confidence will work with women if they are a part of you but not something you do. You can not act confident and expect it to work. You have to become one instead.
10. Something else!
Find a way to fix it.
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Your friend Karlos DeMarko.
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